Love is a force of nature.However much we may want to, we cannot comman, demand, or take away love,any more than we can coomand the moon and the stars and the wind and the rain to come and go according to our whims.We may have some limitted ability to change the weather, but we do so at the risk of upsetting an ecological balance we dont fully understand. Similarly, we can stage a seduction or mount a courtship,but the result is more likely to be infatuation,or two illusions dancing together, than love. Love is bigger than you are.You can invite love, but you cannot dictate how, when, and where love expresses itself.You can choose to surrender to love or not, but in the end,love strikes lightning: unpredictable and iirefutable.You can even find yourself loving somone you like at all.Love does not come with conditions, stipulations or codes. Like the sun, love radiates independently of our fears and desires.Love is inherently free.It cannot be bought , sold or traded.You cannot make som...